blue_lotus13: (frida)
lex ([personal profile] blue_lotus13) wrote2005-03-04 10:59 pm

Girlfriend

I should add that I always find it weird when women refer to their friends (platonic) as their "girlfriends". I've noticed that people may age tend not to do it as much. It seems to be a more middle-aged woman thing.

It also interests me that men never refer to their male friends by this fashion. Guys can saying that they are waiting for a friend, but there is no way for them to specify the gender of the friend without sounding like the friend is their male or female partner. I wonder why we are socialized to use these particular terms.

Thoughts?

[identity profile] tunabelly.livejournal.com 2005-03-06 08:24 pm (UTC)(link)
most guys i know refer to each other as "buddy" or "pal". but they will refer to female friends as just "friends" - actually i think some of female friends also use this model. i refer to everyone as "friend" i dont' really see the need to be gender specific. if whoever i'm talkin to wants to know - they usually ask.